My sil lives in the same catchment area as us and her dd1 started school this September - my ds1 is due to start in September 2013. We are fortunate (or perhaps not, as it has made it more confusing) that we have a very good chance of getting a place at another school that is a bit further away - both schools are rated good by Ofsted, and we liked both when we looked around. I'm going to try and explain this clearly - sorry if it gets a bit complicated! I have 3 dc and my sil has 2 dds, due to start school as follows (DN for nieces):
DN1 - 2012 (already at local school)
DS1 - 2013
DD - 2014
DS2 and DN2 - 2015
After reception the school has mixed classes (Y1/2, Y3/4 and Y5/6), so aside from the fact that ds2 and dn2 will always be in the same school year, my dc will be in a year with a cousin and/or sibling for every year of primary school. I can't decide whether this is a good idea or not. I am not exactly best of friends with sil - although we get on fine, we are quite different - I am worried about potential fallings out (we had fell out quite spectacularly a couple of years ago, it was about our respective dc.....), competitiveness, the interaction of the dc at school and the impact of having immediate family members with them all the time - not having the opportunity to find their own way outside of family, feeling like they have to play together, maybe it going the other way and them being unkind to one another? But it could be nice too, of course, and I may be worrying about nothing? Would love to hear form people who have been in a similar situation.
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Siblings and cousins in same school year - sensible or not? Any experience?
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3monkeys3 · 30/10/2012 19:38
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