After some opinions please.
Have just returned from year 2 ds parents evening and am a bit unsure as too what I can do about the apparent problem we have. Basically, ds will not open up in class and talk. He is better in small group situations but still very quiet and the teacher struggles to get him to offer answers to questions in things like guided reading even though she is pretty sure he does know the answers. Numeracy is the same teacher struggles to get ds to explain how he has arrived at his answers and as a result finds it hard to pinpoint what aspects may need to be revisited with him. She was sure that there wasnt an under lying problem and that ability is there if only he would open up more. I have spoken to him at length when we got home and all he will say is that he doesnt want to talk to the teacher and that he thinks that his friends will laugh at him. I asked if he laughs at his friends when they answer questions and he said no so have said that what makes him think that they will laugh at him. He didnt know. The teacher is going to put some measures in place after half term to try and boost his confidence in group situations but what else can they really do. He really just does not seem to have any confidence in his own ability and worries about getting things wrong so wont offer up answers just in case.
I should add that we had a similar problem in reception and the school did lots with him to help his confidence but it made little difference and he left reception with very poor eyfs profile scores because he was so quiet that they couldnt tell what he could or could not do. Year 1 things seemed to resolve and he really came out of his shell and flew ending the year with 1a reading, numeracy and 1b in writing but now we seem to have gone backwards again with the confidence. Help what can I do.
Thanks
Sarah
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Year 2 ds very quiet will not interact with teacher
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cassgate · 25/10/2012 18:46
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