My DS (age 9, yr 5) came home from school with an "injury form", which said that he had sustained an injury to his neck in the playground which required a cold compress. DS had red marks on his neck. He says that another boy went mad in the playground when they were playing a word/singing game because he didn't like the noise, and kicked and punched some other DC's, and then grabbed my DS by the throat with one hand and pushed upwards.
DS says that a teacher intervened, the whole group were sent to see the Head and then DS and the other "victims" were sent back to class while the perpetrator stayed in with the Head. The boy came back later to class.
Firstly, is it reasonable for me to expect the school to tell me how DS sustained the injury to his neck? I'm going to go in to school tomorrow and ask - I realise that DS might not be telling me the truth, but even if he was involved in some sort of fight, rather than an innocent bystander, shouldn't the school have told me about it?
Also, DS says that this boy often "goes mad" and kicks and punches others when he doesn't get his own way and that he regularly throws heavy things around the classroom (DS says that a whiteboard cleaning block hit him a few weeks ago which I didn't know about at the time) and said that on the way back from a recent school trip, this boy hit a classmate over the head with a block of wood he had picked up while on the trip. I can normally tell when DS is exaggerating or making up stories; he seems pretty genuine on this one though -there definitely seems to be regular incidents involving this boy and other members of the class.
I'm a bit fed up that DS has to put up with this tbh. Can I expect the school to protect DS from witnessing or being subject to these attacks?
I know it's none of my business how they are dealing with the boy - but can I expect some reassurance that they are going to protect the rest of the class, including DS, from further injury?
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PenguinBeak · 07/10/2012 14:55
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