Hi. While researching the net I came across Mumsnet and there are really some helpful folk on here who know a lot more than I do, so thought I'd join and post and see what happens.
Anyway, DS has just moved into year 5 in Primary School and is below for all subjects except PE.
This might go on a bit so please bear with me.
Background Info:
Our daughter who is now in year 9, was also below when she left year 6, however the secondary school identified she had not been taught a number of the subjects she should have by the time she joined secondary school. We had many a battle with the head teacher over this at her primary shool. The deputy head told us she had taught our daughter everything she needed and our daughter was just not academicaly inclined. Despite a running battle DD is now in top sets for most of her subjects, (except the wishy washy ones, like cooking and drama). Finally this month the primary head admitted they had not taught all of the topics they should have done.
Back to DS. We have had run in after run in with DS's Head teacher at his primary school and he is on an IEP, which they failed to monitor corrctly last year, (year 4).
We feel they are just not teaching DS correctly and the head has refused an assessment of DS.
Everything we are being told is down to DS not learning and us as parents not teaching at home, though we spend hours with him, (often getting frustrated, both us as parents and DS) as it just doesn't seem to be sinking in. We have brought books and games and still making very little headway.
DS with the exception of Y4, had a series of supply teachers for years 1-3.
We just don't know where to go or what to do and the head is a waste of time. She has her views and she sticks to them.
DS is not like DD, we have no doubt about that, DD had the ability, she just wasn't taught properly, DS is a normal child, has no special needs, but seems uninterested in the subjects and isn't learning. Our fear is he will leave primary school and be in bottom sets for everything, which will knock on to his future jobs etc.
Sorry for going on, but can anyone give any advice that may help as we just don't know where to go and are made to feel like idiots by the head teacher. At first we took it to be all DS's and our fault, now we simply fire back accusations at the head and this is becoming unproductive and doesn't help DS one iota.
Thanks for reading and any advice you can give.
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