Given notice on our rented house, nowhere left in village affordable so have to move to nearest town.
Taking 5 year old daughter out of village school (she's just started Year 1) and taking 3.5 year old son out of attached nursery, where he's settled well.
Found rented house, paid £120 application fees, just learnt infant school in next street that I applied for is full in Year 1.
I didn't put any other school choices.
They have offered me over the phone today a school a good 25 minute walk away, it's not even the next nearest school. It has the worst Ofsted rating in the whole town.
School Admissions say the entire county is suffering problems with admissions and most primary schools are oversubscribed. A factor of economic migrants.
- Does anyone know if I can appeal for the first school, or is it pointless if it has no places left in Year 1?
- Is it worth putting my daughter on the waiting list for that school? I mean, she could be waiting months or years, I don't want to keep moving her around schools.
3)Is it worth talking to school head privately, to see if she can get in?
- Shall I home educate until she moves up the waiting list? (I have no teaching experience and although soon will be at nursery 3 hours a day, I worry I won't be able to concentrate as they are both playmates and she may not apply herself to work, plus she loses out on social skills with peers).
- Shall I just send her to this school regardless and hope for the best, letting her brave the 30 min walk in cold winter dark every day?
6)Shall we move to new house anyway, and my elderly Mum has said she's happy to drive daughter back and forth from current school every day, until she moves up waiting list. My Mum is not in the best of health and I worry about hazardous winter driving to and from the village.
- I now don't know what to do about my son, as I have to make his application to start Reception before this January deadline. So do I put that first choice school down for him, in which case they'll be siblings in two different schools - logistically impossible, I don't drive! -or .... what??
I'm so confused and stressed. I am on housing benefit, I am currently not working, single, left the children father's because of DV issues, and feel such a failure for 'losing' our village home and life, and now having to replace it with a house in the Smoke and from a fantastic village school to one with unsatisafctory Ofsted ratings.
Summarily, I'd love to hear from anyone with In-Year Admission experience, especially with Year 1 children, if they have any advice,experience, etc.
I mean, theoretically, could she even drop down a year back to Reception stage as that still has vacancies, or is that just ridiculous? I do know of a child in the village that did this, although he had special needs of some kind.
I need some bluddy harsh advice. I have already asked friends and family and everyone is saying something different. Please help?