DD started again last week and has been crying every morning saying she doesn't like school and she doesn't want me to leave as I leave her at the school gate and I don't what, if anything, I should do about it.
In reception, she had days when she was very reluctant to see me leave and would cry, but they were only sporadic, once every few weeks. Usually if she was still tired in the morning from a busy day or slightly late night or if we were running late and I had lost my temper with them before school. I have been nothing but sweetness the past 4-5 school days and she's getting 12 hours sleep, so it's not that.
I thought it might be because in year 1 they are expected to go into school by themselves. In reception throughout the year we could take them into the class, but by the end I would leave her at the coat pegs and she'd be fine other than the above mentioned occasional mornings.
I know she settles down within a few minutes once she's in and she comes out of school happy. And that's happy with the day that happened, not happy because it's over.
She now wakes up, comes into me and says first thing, "I don't want to go to school. I don't like school." I've asked her why and she claims it's because she has to work all the time, but she enjoys learning and doesn't struggle to do any of the work, so it's not like it's hard for her. Plus I know that they are breaking them in gently in year 1, it's not suddenly 6 hours, sitting at the table. I'm just concerned because I believe that if you tell yourself something often enough, it becomes true, so I don't want her to start hating school when she has another 11 years (at least) of this to go still!
I understand that it's probably nothing to worry about, that she'll soon realise this is the new routine and that's the way it is, but it still bothers me.
Any advice?
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In Year 1 and crying every morning at school gate
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AndiMac · 10/09/2012 10:35
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