Our son started reception in January. He seems to be settling in ok but then again, he is quite a laid back boy that takes things in his stride. The teachers say he is 'confident' and 'self reliant'. However, we (I mainly) don't feel overly happy with the school and it's difficult to pin point why. I have tried to explain below. We are therefore thinking of moving him and I was wondering if anyone had any experience of moving your child out of school, mainly reception.
You know what you got but not what you are going to get. I feel so unsure about it I felt that I just had to get some other parents opinions about it.
We live in between the two schools, equal distance. When we were choosing schools we picked the school that he is in now since it's seem very well run and had Outstanding a few years ago. The other school, where he went to pre-school had a a chaotic leadership and it appeared very disorganized. I am not the most organised of people so I felt I needed a school that was switched on. Nevertheless, the school itself was/is lovely, bright, clean and has an great outdoor playground, quite big which is unusual for a inner city London school. They also have a fantastic after school club on site. Since we made our choice the head teacher left (stress apparently) and they have appointment a new head, they are also part of three schools that will have a 'super head'. They take advice from each other. It's also in a leafy residential area whereas when we go to the school where he's at we have to cross a very busy road and the school itself is next to a busy road. The playground is quite boring and bare and, this might just be be me, it doesn't appear to be a very friendly school, somehow the 'architecture' of the school doesn't seem to be set up for that. My son has made some friends but he's not the kind of boy that throws himself into groups, he will stand back for quite a while, doing his own thing. The last few weeks he has started mentioning some boys and what they do. They seem to like playing 'baddies' and with the toy trucks.
Oh, and the other school (where we are thinking of moving him to) is going to be a three form entry from September. So far it's been just two. So it's going to be a quite a large school but until then they will have masses of space which might be an advantage.
I suppose in all honesty I feel more at home at the other school (where he went to pre school) but this might be because I 'know' (at least from the face) more people there and also the kids don't wear uniform which is something that really appeals to me. You might wonder why I didn't choose this school from the start but for all the reasons above and at the time his school now just seemed like the better option. I was always unsure though.
Sorry, a bit of a rambling post was trying to keep it simple. Not sure I achieved it. Would love some feedback about this as I just don't know what to do. Part of me just want to up sticks and move to Cornwall so I don't have to deal with it. But all in all, I know I should have stuck to my intuition on this and I now feel we made the wrong decision. I kind of get a sinking feeling about it...
Thanks for any thoughts!
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Hyssna · 27/03/2012 15:57
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