My son started school in September (he was 4 will be 5 in May) it appeared thing were going reasonable well with a few issues. Now I have only been made aware of a couple of incidents. At parents evening which was a few weeks ago his teacher brought along a foam covered mirror he had chewed. Then this week he has bitten a piece out of a foam block for which he was sent to see the head teacher. I have also been and have now been told he's been biting other children! Then on the last day of term he bit another foam covered mirror.
We've now got a letter asking for money to cover the cost of the damaged items.
While we can afford to do so I am really cross that the school seems to be doing nothing to support him in stopping this behaviour. The letter makes no indication as to anything they intend to do and seems to think that our chatting with him will stop it. The headteacher actually said to me that normally they tell children once and that's it they never do it again. Punishments the school have given him have included being sent to the head which I have already told his classroom teacher will have no impact on him and excluding him from playtime and fun activities.
Obviously we have talked to him and punished him when we knew about incidents. But the lack of communication from the school about what has been happening makes it hard. I'm also cross that the school seems to be more worried about damaged equipment rather than his biting of other children.
We're going to write a letter and arrange a meeting with both the head and his classroom teacher. At the moment I don't want to replace the damaged equipment because I can't see where it will end. I want to support my son in stopping this behaviour but equally I want the school to play their part too. I would really appreciate any advice.
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Son 4, biting children and equipment - help please
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Anomaly · 11/02/2012 13:43
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