Hi there, I am looking for some constructive advice on how to best manage this situation; I have a 4.5 ds, in reception, who at lunch time has taken to playing with 2 year 1 boys. These boys, as have discovered today have an appalling reputation for bad behaviour in and out of the classroom. I have had some concerns for the past 2-3 weeks my ds was reprimanded for pulling the trousers down of another reception child, I was very cross and very upset, I was told these 2 boys had 'egged' him on to do it, apparently they are known for doing this. The teacher explained the punishment given to the children, my ds was reprimanded at home. The thing is I was speaking to another mum today about whether her son socialises with year one children, she said; 'yes, but I have told him there are 2 boys that he is not to play with as they behave very poorly' I mentioned the names of the 2 boys my ds plays with and she aggreed they were the ones and warned me off them, I then went to his teacher and she spilled the beans so to speak and said when in reception last year they were terrible.
I am in the process of using reward charts when he plays with his own year group he is rewarded. My ds does lie about whether he has played with these boys, can be manipulative and when not actively supervised likes to please himself, he is frequently kind, affectionate, naive and impressionable. I have a good relationship with his teacher
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Boisterous behaviour in the playground
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Aliway · 10/11/2011 20:12
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