My 7 yo son goes to a small village school and relies on a small group of friends. During break, all the boys go out and play football. All well and good. My son is one of the youngest in the group, and also the smallest. He also doesn't play any football out of school, so he's probably not the best at football either. But he is keen to have a go.
We've had some behavioural issues with him recently which we have been trying to get to the bottom of, and what he has told us is that another boy, let's call him Bob, is constantly pushing him over and kicking him when they are playing football. Now Bob is a big boy, and clumsy too. He's also on the SEN register for various issues.
My boy has needed first aid on more than one occasion, and Bob has also pushed and kicked (deliberately, I'm told) other children too. What concerns me is the fact that I am told that when the other children report Bob's behaviour to one of the teachers or TA's, they are told off for snitching and his behaviour is not dealt with.
Obviously, the word of a seven-year-old is not gospel, and we are going to go in to talk to the school to ascertain the truth of the situation. My question is more what should be done. Should Bob be disciplined even if his behavioural issues are part of his special needs? Should the other children have to put up with it? What can I do to stop my boy getting hurt? Especially as it seems to be having knock-on effects in the classroom?
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MMQC · 14/10/2011 08:45
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