I have a 5 year old who is the youngest in his class (P2 in Northern Ireland) and he just doesn't get any of it. While the rest of the class is well on their way to reading DS is still very stuck on SATPIN. I initially approached his teacher with my concerns and she agreed with me that he wasn't developmentally ready for P2 and I took away with me the literature and web addresses which she suggested. I painted a wall in my kitchen with magnetic and chalk board paint to make it all a bit more fun. I have bought and photocopied the Jolly Phonics books and get him to do pages here and there and I am always phonetically pronouncing words and getting him to try to guess what I am saying. He still doesn't get any of it - however this is not the problem anymore. The real problem is that he is breaking down into uncontrolable sobbing when it comes time to do his homework and yesterday he was so upset he almost threw up from all the crying because his teacher screams at him when he doesn't know the answers. I sent a note with his homework (2 weeks ago) requesting another meeting with her and that afternoon I checked his homework folder and found his unmarked homework with the unread note. I obviously chastised her for this and now the situation has degenerated into her bullying my son and me having angry phone calls and meetings with the school principal. I called the school board with my concerns about her behaviour towards my son and they said that it would be best for me to try to sort it out myself before I make things formal. I have a meeting tomorrow with both the teacher and the principal and I could really do with some advice on how to approach it.
This situation has become unbearably stressful - I have insomnia and my skin has broken out in cold sores and I hate sending him to school when he is so visibly upset. He cries at the mention of homework and a good day for him is when his teacher doesn't yell at him.
I just want my son to be happy in his school environment and not to feel as if he is going to be yelled at for something he just can't do.
Please give me some advice. Even advice on how to keep my emotions out of the meeting. (this is very hard for me because I speak honestly which most people don't appreciate)
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MissOz · 12/10/2011 13:59
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