Ds1 has struggled with reading and writing since its introduction in reception, but it got particularly bad when he started year 1.
Long story short, he was made so unhappy and struggled so much and had such a terrible impact on his self esteem that I took him out of school and home schooled him for most of 2010 and he started his new school (small village primary) in Nov last year. We loved HE but I soon realised that ds1's issues were getting no better despite the 1-1 he was having with me and he missed the social aspect of school.
He likes this school - and thats great - but I am less than impressed by their attitudes to ds1's literacy issues.
I explained to the HT when we applied for a place that ds1 was behind his peers and the NC and still had considerable difficulty reading and writing (I have suspected dyslexia since he was 5/6).
When he joined the school the SENco assessed him and told me that she "had no serious concerns" and that he just had "gaps in his phonic knowledge".
I was amazed I am not trained and even I can see that he has real difficulty tracking words on a page and with his auditory and visual memory!!!
This SENco is rarely there sue to illness and is in fact, again off sick and may be for some time from what I can gather.
In desperation, I went to my GP in Feb this year and asked for a referral to a child dev paed which he ageed to...he agreed with me that I had cause for concern (ds1 was a very poorly baby and missed a lot of his developmental milestones) The paed requested the school fill in a GARS questionairre (to screen for asd) and refer to an EP. Neither of these things was done, and in fact I was told that an EP referral would not be forthcoming until ds1 had not made any progress for a further academic year. At the end of year 3 his scores were;
reading: 1a - up from 1b at start of year 3
writing: 1b - unchanged from start of year 3
maths: 2a - up from 2b at start of year 3
The school have told me they consider this "good progress" and are "very pleased". I am v unhappy about this. I do not consider this adequate progress at all!
I therefore comissioned a private EP to assess ds1 at school and her report says he has dx dyslexia. We are still seeing a paed as to whether ds1 has subtle asd traits.
We have a meeting with the HT and his new teacher (who I havent met yet) on 4th October.....help!!!!
Ds1 gets no 1-1 help atm. He is on a table with 5 other children that has an HLTA sat with them in the mornings and has access to a TA in the afternoon.
What should the school be doing, what should I be doing and should I apply for a statement???
I just feel they have written ds1 off already and he is only 8
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Ds1 (8) just dx as dyslexic....any teachers/parents with advice on how to make sure he gets the help he needs??
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Becaroooo · 26/09/2011 12:50
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