DD (4.5) has just started Reception. On Friday the teacher asked to have a word :( DD had messed herself and there had been several incidents- throwing sand and spitting then not listening. I told her off there and then in front of the teacher.
I told DD after school that the other half of the class would be in on Monday so there would be more new friends to play with. She told me she wasn't going to make any more friends and would be playing on her own because "nobody likes me", and that she wants her old friends back :(
I've seen her playing with 2 particular children so I said "well you are friends with Jack and Evie" (not real names). No she said, "Jack told me he wasn't my friend anymore, and he spat at me". I asked her how come she was in trouble if he spat at her and she said she spat back and they both were. This puts a whole new slant on her behaviour and was something the teacher didn't mention. (I realise she can't name names or comment on other children's behaviour, but there's a huge difference between DD just spitting at someone for no reason, and retaliating when someone else has done it first)
I was worried about her going to school where she didn't know anyone but thought she'd settled in OK. Now it seems she hasn't. We have Parents Evening in just over 2 weeks. Do I ask the teacher about this friends situation now or wait until parents eve? Her behaviour at home has got worse since starting school but IIRC that is fairly normal in these early days?
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Reception - behaviour problems and nobody likes me
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tallulah · 25/09/2011 11:41
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