DD has just started reception. She's been fairly quiet every night when I pick her up and been going to bed earlier than she used to (she used to find an excuse to stay up). I put it down to adapting to school and big changes. She's also been under the weather with a high temperature, again I've put it all down to big changes in her life.
This morning she told me she doesn't have any friends at school and she wants to go back to nursery where everyone likes her. I asked her what she meant and she said everytime she tries to play with the other girls they say she can't join them or share toys as she 'doesn't have blonde hair'. Here's the thing, she is mixed race and we have lived in a not very diverse area. As a white mum, I've never experienced racism or feeling different, I'm so upset that she is being made to feel different at such a young age. She's never encountered this before, her friends outside school are diverse.
I asked her if she spoke to teachers and teachers have told girls to play nicely but she is still left out. I've tried to make light of this but I don't want her to be affected by this as usually she is a confident kid.
What do I do? I could talk to teachers but don't want to single her out, can anyone help?
Thanks from a sad concerned mum.
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DD is being bullied in Reception
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gigglersqueak · 18/09/2011 08:59
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