I'm in a real quandry and would really appreciate some advice.
DS (3) appears to have some SN, not sure what but he refuses to intergrate with other children his age and just doesn't do what other kids seem to do (Doesn't appear to have a clue what age he is, doesn't care about sanctions, naughty step doesn't work at all)
DD (2) is amazing. Bilingual. Out of nappies. Loves classes, loves singing, dancing. etc.,
DS got rejected from prep school last year and I'm fearful that he will be rejected this year too DD will absolutely certainly be accepted.
So, what do I do?
I don't want to send one child to a great school and not the other? COnsider home ed? Send them both to a different school?
i dont think I would want to send my children to a school that rejected 3 years olds tbh. The things your son does/doesnt do sound much like my son (and daughter in fact) at three. They both went to a primary school and before that the nursery attached to the primary school that was considered to be a bad school and we LOVE it they thrive there. I have no idea why the school has the reputation it does tbh.
wow, i thought with private schools you basically could have a place as long as you were willing to pay.
i would look around. mention to schools that you think he may have some SN and find one that is sympathetic to that...
i would also go and talk to your health visitor, if he does have special needs then it would be really worth your while getting him assessed as soon as you can because there are often long waiting lists.