I have no idea where to start with this!!!
DS2 (Y3) is handsome, very kind, artistic, musical and sporty, and very well behaved at school. He has always been very verbal (launched into three word sentences("I like it" / "You have it") around his first birthday) and can do great impressions of cartoon characters, so could possibly be good at languages.
He was very late at rhyming and reading (finally started to read at 6.5), but can keep up average children in maths. His writing is painfully s-l-o-w. He can show his ability orally, but not on paper, and his teacher recognises this.
He has the same teacher for art, music and French (not his class teacher). According to this teacher (who I can only presume had drunk even more red wine than I have this evening, when she wrote the paragraph of his report, for her sentence construction is so poor!) he "could have ability in these subjects,but doesn't". (She doesn't expand)
Now, I accept DS2 will never be an academic high flyer, but he does have his strengths, which I think will stand him well in life. I so sad these have not been recognised in his school report.
And today he spent the afternoon with his Y4 teacher. He says it was "rubbish" because she told the class she is a "slave driver" and if they don't do enough work in class she will send it home to be completed.
At this point I tried to reassure him by saying if he bought more work home than just his usual homework I would send a note back saying "DS2 was too busy helping me cook tea, having a bath and playing with his brother and sister to finish his work." - Yes I do feel awful for undermining his new teacher already!
His currrent class teacher and the head are retiring, so I will have to wait until Y4 to really tackle this. I'm so that my other 2 DC, who are are by no means perfect have been recognised for their strengths, but DS2 hasn't been.
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I am obviously pathetic because I have spent most of the evening blubbing and pouring wine down my throat about DS2's school report.
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LynetteScavo · 12/07/2011 22:37
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