Ok - this is dull, but I'm trying to work out whether the teachers are even now exclaiming about that horrid pushy mother who is just adding to the difficulties in their lives.
dd is in preschool. She's summerborn and starts reception in Jan at the same school. It's a good school, Inner City, big classes.
They do some phonics work and when she joined they gave me a reading record, said they would try to read with dd every week and write it in, and could I do the same. So I did, for a bit, but then they never wrote anything and since we read four or five books a day I never ended up writing them in because it would just fill up the record. I assumed they thought she wasn't ready for reading and therefore didn't worry that they clearly weren't reading with her.
But recently something has really clicked with dd and phonics. She loves a little computer game with letters that we let her play and she's started wanting to read books to me. I got a set of Songbird phonics from the Book People because they come round to our office and they were £15 for the whole set and we've done all the purple ones.
I know the school does similar books with the kids that they think are 'ready'.
So, with all of that back story, was it ok for me to say to the teaching assistant this am - how long is it since someone has read with DD? She said...er...has anyone written anything in? I said, not for a term and a half and she said that some of the students don't write in if they've read with the children.
So I said that dd had been reading lots of words - only simple ones, with me. The TA said quite rudely - "does she know all of the frequent use words for Reception?". The answer to that is no, of course she doesn't (she's not yet four), but that wasn't the point I was making. I just wondered if anyone had bothered checking whether she can read or not. I said could I at least borrow some phonics books because I don't want to move her up a level yet and we only have six and now she knows them off by heart so doesn't decode.
Anyhow, was it rude of me to ask? Cos she made me feel like I had just added to the tremendous burden of her life. I think because she's one of the youngest in the year - and quite short as well - they tend to assume she can't do things without checking whether she can or not.
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was i horribly pushy? Genuinely want to know
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preschoolly · 21/06/2011 16:37
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