we have a second meeting with head teacher (and class teacher and senco too I think) next week. They all have recognised ds' (5) issues with not sitting still and not following instructions but say there is nothing they can do as they think he is fine academically. Previously he had 'anger management issues' but these seem to have abated.
They say he is very bright, imaginative and articulate, we think this is masking his very real difficulties in other areas and strongly suspect pathological demand avoidance and non-verbal learning disorder maybe some motor issues too.
They have observed him and said that as he can play with others and interact ok there is no evidence of a problem. They seem to be thinking that classic autism is the only condition out there, i know they aren't going to see those characteristics because they aren't there. There are however a million subtle indications that he has PDA and nld, but I don't think they are evident to the teachers (that is not their failing as they are not developmental paediatricians!)
However, academically, we are not convinced that he is fine. His writing is terrible, he can't really write even his own 5 letter name and has made almost no progress since starting school.
Although he is "one of the better readers" we think he is capable of much more than he shows as he appears to have made very little progress from where he started in sept.
In his learning journey they observed that he can count to 20, but he could count to 50 before he started school. Is he regressing or is he just not showing what he can do?
He has become much more introverted and is significantly less happy since he started school. He has lost his spark and his interests, and his liveliness.
We keep saying we are worried about year 1, as he will be expected to do so much more sitting still and following instructions and also writing. Teacher said," you never know he might well be fine"
we are currently waiting to see paed for assessment (gp says should not be a long wait) and also have family support worker. Support worker implies that school should be doing more, so what should I ask them to do now?
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Sops · 29/05/2011 13:31
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