Today, DD's teacher asked for a word after school and told me that DD who is 6's behaviour has been appalling (not her words). It covers the whole spectrum, not sitting on the carpet, not listening, disrupting others, answering back and cheeky attitude to staff, verbally and physically nasty to her friends and not changing or amending any of this behaviour when spoken to by staff.
It doesn't come as a complete surprise because she is exhibiting a lot of this behaviour at home too but on previous occasions when her behaviour has been poor at home its been fine at school.
We've had a long chat and a few tears at home, we've talked about and listed what good looks like, and have done a behaviour chart, with a promise of an unspecified reward at the end if it's all ticks.
I plan on doing some role play with the dolls house tomorrow to reinforce but am on here to vent, to look for any more ideas and also hopefully to be told that she'll grow out of it quickly!
Its seems that she's got too big for her boots, to a much lesser extent this happened late in her reception year (she's now Y1) and her teacher then said it was not uncommon towards the end of a school year that they get a bit restless but surely its too early for that. She is G&T listed as her reading is exceptional but I do not want to brandish that as an excuse as the school are good at recognising this, she is in a mixed Y1 & Y2 class and works often with Y2s. She is also VERY close friends with a little girl who also behaves this way - I cannot come up with a way to separate them as it is such a small school although this child does not often work in the same groups as my DD.
ooof, this parenting thing can be hard!
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DD 6 displaying bad attitude and behaviour at school
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hillyhilly · 10/05/2011 17:12
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