Found out last night that DS (Y1) is being bullied at school by a so called friend.
This friend has had a variety of behaviour issues (nothing disgnosed or specific just badly behaved) but I had not realised how nasty, violent and unpleasant he was being towards DS.
Obviously school are now fully aware and are going to speak to both boys.
DS is not a very confident boy, but is really loving and caring, and loyal even to this friend. All my suggested phrases were turned down by him on the grounds that he wants to be a kind friend. eg I suggested saying 'I don't like it when you do/say that and I don't want to play with you now'.
They have had anti-bullying lessons at school but I don't think it has ocurred to DS that he is being bullied. Do I point this out hoping it will make him feel justified in tackling the bully, or would pointing it out put DS in the role (and mind set?) of victim? I don't want to damage his self esteem.
Thanks in advance for any advice - my heart is breaking for him. He has gone from loving school to only liking the subject they are in different groups for
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Do I tell DS this is bullying?
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KnowNothing · 03/12/2010 12:35
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