Dd loved Infant School, progressed well, had lots of friends and, although shy, was quietly confident. Since she went up to Junior School, however, she's a different child and I'm getting to my wits end.
I was first concerned when she was separated into a different class to her friends, and we had a terrible summer holiday where she complained of tummy ache for much of the time. We took her to the drs but they could find nothing physically wrong with her. She was very very worried about starting school and basically just hasn't settled She has been in tears in assembly, lunch, tummy ache coming and going etc etc.
We've talked to the teacher and the head but it just isn't getting significantly better... We changed her to packed lunches which seemed to help for a little while, but now they have to eat their lunch in their classroom so she's apart from her friends again She said she'd try a hot meal this week, but came out of school tonight in tears complaining of tummy ache again, and claims she 'can't remember' what lunch was like. She apparently spent most of PE (outside) sitting in the medical room and then just watching.
Her work is suffering, she's not sleeping well and the Head had the nerve to say 'well she seems alright in school, are you sure she isn't putting it on at home?'
I really don't think she's happy, but I'm beginning to get cross with her TBH, so am looking for help from MNers...
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Dd(7) struggling to settle at Junior School (long sorry)
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hotcrossbunny · 23/11/2010 19:21
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