My children are due to return to their primary school next week.
During the last months of the last term at school there were a number of incidents which led to me feeling worried about what has been going on there.
I tried to get them into other schools over the holidays, including private schools, but have not had any success as they are all full. I put it out of my head while we were in Italy for the last couple of weeks but now we are back and I am full of dread about their return.
I do not want to go into huge depth about exactly what has happened as I do not want to be identified and the incidents are all fairly specific, but to give some idea - children are at times - I do not know how often - left largely unsupervised at play time, even young children in the infants - there will be an adult outside, but they will be sitting on a bench, drinking tea with two other adults, often facing inwards, so most of the playground is not visible to them, they intervene when children approach them but not otherwise. I have seen this myself twice and on raising it with other parents, found that others had seen it too.
Children are not always registered properly -on more than one occassion children are slipped into class late after the register has gone and the register is not updated. I know this as I thought this was what was happening on one occassion when I brought DD in late following dentist appointment, but then couldn't quite believe it so checked with the school secretary who confirmed that if a child is too late they don't get put on the register 'but the teacher always knows who's in and who's not'.
Some very dubious punishments are used also - always just about the right side of the line drawn before physical violence. Despite the harsh punishments however, the atmosphere there is not calm, but chaotic and there is a lot of fighting between the children. I have seen bruises and cuts on my own children from this, but when I have tried to speak to the teacher about it, to check if the alarming stories my sons are telling me are true, she doesn't know what has happened, says she is sorry and that is all.
The head teacher is very hostile to anything other than praise and if a complaint is made against a teacher - as many are - the head will not deal with it unless the parent is willing to come and meet with the complained about teacher and complain face to face. This reduces the number of complaints as many parents do not want to risk the complaint resulting in adverse consequences for their children. I have never tried to complain, but this is what I have been told by many others is the standard approach.
I know my children should not go to this place. It has been the subject of numerous complaints to ofsted and the local education authority, and many families have done the right thing and got their kids out. It was the fact that so many announced their decision to remove their children in the last week of the summer term that really made me think that I was overlooking something important.
I have come to all this late in the day - possibly because I have a nanny and so do not take or collect my children from school and so have not been able to find everything out as quickly as those with more regular access to playground chat. I now wish I had been more clued up earlier and sought places in other schools last year, instead of in the final week of last term, which is when it appears to have reached boiling point.
What would you do?
I have not spoken to the children about this.
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afraid for children's safety at school.
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highlandspringerdog · 23/08/2010 12:51
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