Ds is 9, 10 in a few months. He is now allowed to meet friends at the park, walk to and from school. He has a phone and iPad. I view his browsing history every day or so and check messages.
Dh thinks it’s fine to leave him in the house to collect me from the station, I do not. At all.
Dh thinks we need to get him ready for being independent in year 7. My concern is that if we had an accident, he’d be in the house alone. It seems very young to be left. Dh sees no big difference between him being at the park to safely at home for 15 mins.
I know I can be over protective but I’m feeling really upset. I feel I'm losing my little boy which I know sounds over dramatic. When discussing it with my sister (she has adult daughters) she said hmm, all kids kind of don’t want to know you during their teens but then girls come back to you...not sure if boys do. He seems so sassy and too grown up for 9. He’s not a teenager yet ffs.
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icelollycraving · 22/04/2021 07:32
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