My 10 year old has been lying to me, her dad and her nan in order to get stuff from us. She's told all 3 of us this lie in order for us to put credit on her game ! She ended up with £40 in total from us and we have only just found out that she told the same lie to us all. It's manipulative and calculated and I'm just not having it ! So she really really needs to learn a lesson. She's golden child in school and has never ever been in trouble, normally she is very good at home she just has a problem with listening she finds it hard to do as she is told (at home only 🙄) but other than that I can't complain. This recent incident though has really made me upset and mad with her !!
I've taken her tv and laptop and she isn't allowed to watch YouTube if she's watching tv on the shared TVs ... I really want to make a lasting impression to her as I know when she's a teenager and if she carries on with this lying to us she could be in danger and not want to tell me because she would rather lie than get in trouble. I need her to understand the importance of being honest to her family and how her actions were wrong.
She's my eldest so going through this age is new for me she's still a kid but she's slowly morphing into a teenager and I can see it !
Hope you can help !
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nightowl11 · 04/02/2020 14:56
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