I’m really struggling to get dd 10 to keep her bedroom tidy. If an item of clothing is missing, you can bet it’s either under her bed or stuffed down the side of it.
It’s not just clothes on the floor, books, toys, papers, rubbish, shoes, coat hangers, money, dirty laundry, fucking Lego. You name it, it’s on her floor except the carpet which you can’t see.
So, usually on a Thursday evening we have ‘matey time’ as dh is out and we stay up to watch some tv together.
Tonight she’s left her room a mess, so I’ve sent her upstairs to bed after pleading with her three times to sort her room as I was looking forward to ‘matey time’. She’s gone upstairs and is now sobbing full blow for the past 30minutes ( I have checked on her). We’ve previously said she couldn’t go horse riding, banned her from the iPad and neither have worked. She really doesn’t give a crap. I’m so fucking angry with her for being like this. We’ve had chats, I’ve got mad, her dads got mad. Urgh! It’s exhausting. She’s still balling her eyes out 😩
Any tips where I’m going wrong would be really helpful and appreciated.
Thanks.
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Longdistance · 30/01/2020 22:16
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