My dd is 12, she has never really had a best friend, she has had friends but it’s superficial if that makes sense. I really notice it now maybe because of her age. Girls she would have been friendly with in the estate have all paired off and dd is on her own. None of them call for her anymore. She’s a nice quiet girl, too quiet and nice maybe. She calls for them sometimes but she hasn’t recently as I think she has got the message. I try to organize things for her with school friends etc she’s quite active and likes to be out of the house but more one to one, she gets daunted at groups and shys away from any confrontation. I feel sorry for her, there has been no falling out with these girls as such she has had 2 who will go out of their way to avoid her and will be sneaky about it, it’s just like DD doesn’t exist and I can’t do anything about it. Feeling a bit helpless. She is going to the same secondary school as these girls in September and I dread to think of her walking in on her own. i think I need more help than she does tbh my heart is broken. Has anyone suggestions on how to deal with this. Thanks for reading x
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