DD is having constant meltdowns. She's always been tricky, very OCD and precise. She can't say anything affectionate and finds it hard to say sorry. Recently she started getting panic attacks. She has severe allergies and thinking she'd eaten something she is allergic to was the trigger. She gets super angry and storms off most dinner times. She bangs her leg or screams. One of the things that triggers her is if we tell her something she already knows or was about to do eg. "Please don't do X". Sometimes the anger leads on to tearfulness and ranting about how she has no friends and it's all "fake" . When she calms down she is completely different, she chats - though nothing personal as she gets triggered when you get personal. She plays with friends after school and when you see them they seem to be having fun.
However, she's having a lot of meltdowns and tells us that we're the worst parents she knows and that we're the reason why she has no friends as we have embarrassed her. I feel like we're dealing with a Jeckll and Hyde. The swings are extreme. She has paranoid thoughts too. We were in the supermarket and she thought someone was rolling their eyes at me and she suggested I confront them.
All sort of things are going through my head - is she developing mental illness? She's already seeing a therapist for other issues and we are due to have a meeting about what happens next.
I'm just afraid about her direction of travel. This isn't going to get easier is it?
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Panic Attacks, Anger, Tearfulness in 10yr old girl
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splodge2001 · 22/11/2019 09:49
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