I have a 9-year-old boy who is an only child. He becomes overexcited to the point of being hyper when a friend comes over to play or various social situations that he is enthusiastic about. I have no problem with a child being enthusiastic but it is more than that. He seems unable to calm down, engage and communicate. We spent the day yesterday at Kew Gardens. He spent the day rushing from place to place and interrupting both me and his friend. We have been to Kew Gardens frequently so it was not a to new experience. I am afraid I handled it very badly and eventually lost my patience with him.
What I would like to do is help him appreciate the need to communicate effectively so that everyone is heard and listened too. At home, it is a problem too but less so. Fairly regularly a conversation is interrupted by him humming or rushing off to attend to something else.
We are going on holiday soon with another child and parent and I would like to preempt situations which result in him being frustrated and me losing my patience with him. I do make a big effort to listen to him when he is communicating and aim to be a reasonable role model.
I have been reading 'The Book You Wish Your Parents Had Read' and found the advice helpful but there is not anything, in particular, to help with this sort of situation.
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whatreallymatters45 · 07/07/2019 07:23
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