Hi, my son is 11 and has just started secondary school, after the initial excitement the reality has set in that he is going to be at this new school for years to come.
He’s made a couple of friends in his class but has been lunching alone and calling me saying he wants to come home. He seems too shy to take the new friendships out of the classroom and is therefor feeling lonely and not enjoying it. His other class mates from primary school were allocated other classes and all see each other and have made new friends to lunch with and haven’t really taken care of my son. One of his old friends just left him in the canteen alone today to join his other pals. I know it’s very early days but his upset is sending my anxiety through the roof!
I have chatted to him and written to his teacher so trying to cover all bases. I’ve given advice on conversational skills but he doesn’t seem to be taking it on board.. any advise to help him settle would be gratefully received.. similar experiences that worked out in the end??
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Kelwar · 11/09/2018 00:04
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