Hi, I really don’t know what to do for the best about my 10, nearly 11 yr old daughter who is currently having a very difficult time with health related anxiety.
She repeatedly asks the same questions about her health. These questions stay the same for a week or so and then become about another health issue.
It took a dramatic turn about 7 weeks ago where for 5 weeks she was fixated about a spot on her leg. In the end I took her to the doctors with concerns about her mental health and being unable to let these worries go.
She isn’t bad enough to be referred to CAMHS. I have tried a self help book. We do headspace mindfulness every day.
But she can’t let these ideas go. She is currently hysterical as I won’t answer her again about the same question I have already answered. I am trying to go down the route of not feeding the anxiety by repeatedly answering the questions.
I just don’t know what to do. She is in tears nearly making herself sick. Am I doing the right thing In ‘being cruel to be kind’ or should I just keep answering her.
I know I need to build her self resilience and I just don’t know if I’m doing the best thing or not.
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Minime85 · 06/08/2018 23:14
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