My DD is 11.5 and seems to be gaining weight rather rapidly. She is 147cm tall and 7st 7lb which just brings her into the slightly overweight category. She weighed 8lb 8oz when she was born and has always worn clothes a yr older than her actual age. All this weight watching is alien to me as my side of the family are all really slim but both my husbands sisters and his mum are overweight. Unfortunately for her all her friends are stick thin and look fab in their belly tops. She has a big tummy and is now putting weight on on her arms and face. However she isn't bothered one iota. She eats relatively healthily rarely has fizzy drinks has small portions at meal times but like anyone she does like biscuits and crisps and I have started to cut these down but as she is more independent now she does stop at the shop and buy a chocolate bar or if out with friends she will pop to mcdonalds. All her friends are really sporty one is a gymnast one swims for the county and the other two are good footballers unfortunately she isn't good at sport so she hates taking part in anything remotely competitive. But she walks to school everyday 2 miles and as a family we are constantly active , we walk everywhere and are always busy doing something. Like any pre teen though when at home she does enjoy watching you tube or being on her phone. She got a fit bit for xmas and everyday she hits at least 10,000 steps. However she does not care that she is slighlty overweight and maybe I shouldn't but the media make out having an overweight child is a sin. She wears her tight jeans and belly tops and doesn't care. Should I be concerned or let her be happy in her own skin which she is!! She has put on almost 2 stone since she was weighed in primary school 16 months ago.
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Storminateacup74 · 13/02/2018 17:23
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