I'm sorry if this seems like a ramble - I'm worried that DS9 needs something that we are not giving him right now or that there is something we are missing;
- very clever and creative but puts in the bare minimum of effort to school work and is very untidy / scruffy in his presentation (handwriting is appalling and will score out stuff and cram in words etc)
- good at art, singing and anything computer based
- reported from school that he frequently clashes with other children and gets very angry and frustrated. Being sent out of class for arguing with other kids
- very hard to get him to be in any way organised or methodical, approaches everything in a very chaotic way
- loves to take care of children younger than him but struggles to relate to kids his own age, especially boys
- gets very stressed and anxious when he makes mistakes but can also be very vocal in arguing his point if he thinks something is unfair
- struggles to control himself physically and emotionally especially in classes that are more 'high energy' like drama or PE
I guess what's worrying me is the lack of academic progress despite how clever he is and easy he finds things - he's got the knowledge but his presentation is so crappy it makes him look less able than he really is. I'm also worried that he doesn't seem to have any friends. I just want him to fulfill his potential and be happy.
To complicate things slightly I think he has anxiety issues related to me being diagnosed and treated for breast cancer a couple of years ago 😔 He was at an age where he was so aware of it and I think it has affected him massively - I'm trying to get him some therapy or support.
If anyone has any tips or tactics I can use to try to help him they would be most gratefully received.....