I've always been fairly trusting of how and when my dc chat and use social media with their friends as they've grown up. They had FB and Instagram at 13 and I had the passwords so I could check up on what they were doing.
I must have been worn down or technology speeded up, but my youngest, who is now in Year 7, has Instagram and Snapchat, as do most of her friends and year. I'm still able to check her accounts, but seeing some bad language and inappropriate chat.
Do I just shut them down? Do I warn, take away devices for a period of time and admonish? (This is what I've done so far).
What social media is OK for Year 7's to chat to each other, pass each other homework's when they've forgotten their bag and make plans for meeting up?
I want to give her some privacy, I want her to be able to have chit chat with her friends, I don't want to have to snoop on her all the time.
I know the age limit for Instagram is 13, but I also know that the vast majority of her year use it regularly to message each other.....
What do you do?
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BeachysSnowyWellieBoots · 06/03/2017 21:05
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