I have twin girls who are very different from one another and over the past few months TD1 has had a major down turn in behaviour. She has always been a bit of an upity madam but recently it just seem to be getting out of hand. Last night as an example, she was messing around in her and sisters bedroom and ended up breaking something of her sisters. She immediatly lied about it saying she has no idea what happended as she was asleep. I took an hour today to get the truth out of her. This is bit of a trend at the moment. She says sher lied because she didn't want to be told off, I think she is doing to see what see can get away with. After getting the truth out of her, and explaining that I am more upset with the lying than with her accidently breaking something, we discussed how she could make right with her sister, firstly by appologising and secondly by offering to pay for or replace the item. They decided she would replace the (£3) item with some chocs and a MLP surprise pack. Tonight at bed time i over hear her telling her sister she won't be making the previously agreed reparation, with great delight! When I confronted her she stropped and cried because DT2 would never buy her anything, because DT2 never breaks DT1's stuff. When she goes to bed, she discovers some old snotty tissues and throws them on her sisters bed. At which point I totally loose my rag and she is sent to bed with no story or cuddles!! This sort of saga is becoming a daily event at the moment I would be grateful for any advice( or offers to have her!!!)
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Is this normal or is my 8yr old DD a sociopath!!!
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Doubletroublemummy2 · 20/02/2017 21:41
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