You'll be wanting to know why I check his Instagram. That's because he's been an idiot online before now and I've only allowed him to have it on the understanding that I will check it out.
I feel bad for reading her messages, but I can't avoid it, as she is so very full on. My son is pretty monosyllabic, while she seems to have virtually married him in her head. I can cope with all this quite well, but I'm unhappy if he's being put under emotional stress with statements about her killing herself, however serious it might not be (but how do I/he know, really?)
I haven't met the girl but I'm wondering what her parents would think. Presumably they don't know she is posting such things? Or maybe they do, but as they know her, they know how best to judge it.
I really don't want to intervene, but I don't not want to if I need to. Is there something to do here, that isn't going to create a big horrible mess, other than talking to DS about it?