Dd3 is 9.5, going into Year 5. She's the youngest of 3 girls and seems to be my most challenging child.
She has a terrible temper and will lash out physically at the smallest thing (usually with dd2, they clash quite a bit). Her excuse is that her sister was winding her up but I always tell her that there is never any excuse for violence/hitting/kicking etc and we need to think of ways to control her temper.
She will also lose it with me and get cross, speak to me rudely and just act like a madam. I just don't know where I am going wrong Sometimes she sounds so spoilt and entitled. She's very quick to pick up on my tone of voice, if I sound slightly irritated she asks me why I'm cross. So I speak to her in a pleasant tone, she gets cross that my voice is 'patronising'.
Puberty has definitely started so I know a lot is down to hormones. But she's always been like this. I don't think she ever outgrew toddler tantrums so she's gone straight from those to hormones!
For the record, she's perfectly behaved at school and I get glowing reports. But her behaviour at home really gets me down. I'm worried we should have been a lot firmer with her years ago
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How can I help my 9 year old dd manage her temper?
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Dancergirl · 30/08/2016 23:05
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