My DS is ten and I am trying very hard to get him to be a little more independent than he is. For example, I'm trying to get him to start bathing himself because I think at ten, it is long overdue. He is not having any of it though, and still wants me or his dad to help him, and gets upset if I try to insist he does it himself. By the time his sister was eight she wanted to do everything herself, and was very independent in lots of ways, and would not let anyone even go in the bathroom if she could help it. My son is very sensitive and loving and needs lots of affection, and gives it back. He is not consious or shy about people seeing him without clothes, which is fine, but surely he should be a little more modest by now. The other night he was in the bath and I had put some of those bath bombs from lush in with him, and he thought these were so cool that he started shouting down for everyone to come up and have a look. This included me, two of my friends, his sister who is now sixteen, and a friend of hers as well, all in the bathroom, and he decided to just casually stand up and let them all have a good look at him in his birthday suit! They all think he is gorgeous, and he is, and in some ways I'm glad that he is still our baby boy and that he wants his Mum and Dads help for so much, but I don't think we should keep babying him so much. My husband disagrees and says just to leave him be because he thinks he will become very bashful, and more independent in general in his own time, and now I'm not so sure if I should put my foot down or not?
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A struggle to get my DS to bath himself........
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bridgetoc · 07/07/2016 11:15
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