DD is in Y7 in a single sex school. Two of her classmates have sent the whole class an email (on the school email system) to tell them they are starting a "sorority" and that anyone who wants to join will need to go through "an initiation". Most? all? of the class including DD have signed up, although DD reluctantly as she's not really a social type and none of them know what the club will be doing, but DD felt she had to because her social standing is pretty shaky as it is. The "founders" have now sent round an email stating that the "initiation" will be (a) writing and performing a song about the sorority, or (b) an "artistic response" to the animal totem, or some kind of a fashion collage. These are to be brought into school to be "judged" by the two founders. The two founders are obviously taking this quite seriously.
Is it just me that finds this extremely weird? To me it seems that these two girls are just exploiting the insecurity of the masses (including DD's) to put themselves in a position of power, probably making at least some of them (likely DD) feel miserable and excluded along the way. Or is this the kind of thing that happens regularly in sec schools these days and I should relax?
Obviously my concern is that DD will try hard and perform a song and they will reject her because they never liked her anyway, and she'll be the only one in the class who isn't in it and she'd feel wretched. But it could happen to anyone and I don't want DD to be part of anything like that.
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Is it strange that Y7 DD's classmates are setting up a "sorority"
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moonball99 · 04/06/2016 21:51
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