My now 12 year old got £55 birthday money from various friends. He wanted to buy some DVDs, which I ordered online for him. The total cost was £54:60 so in theory he had 40p left. I told him to just give me £50.
He handed the money over just now, off his own bat and without complaint (but with a little wince!) . I feel really bad taking his cash. It's all he had in the world as we don't really do pocket money. But I want him to learn that when you choose to spend your money, it is then gone.
I am very tempted to slip him a tenner back, because he paid without complaint, but don't want to give him a bad lesson. What do you think? I feel bad because I have plenty of money right now.
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Squashybanana · 14/05/2016 13:28
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