getting an easily distracted, chronic faffer to become more organised and mature.
Dd is only two years off secondary school which isnt long really. all this allocation talk has got me worried a bit. the school dd is likely to get isn't great. so I really need to be able to get her to motivate and focus herself with regards to her work and her learning.
she can be so capable with some things but wheb it comes to school work although she's doing well, she's crap at remembering to hand in homework and she will sit staring at the work and get distracted and seems to need constant re focussing at home.
she's getting to the age where I should be able to start leaving her on her own to go to the shops or pop round fir a cup of tea at the neighbours house, and whereas I can trust her to not burn the house down or do something stupid. I also know if I leave her to do her work I will come home to it not being done. either because she got distracted watching a bird in the garden or because she didn't think to try and solve a problem.which would allow her to carry on
fir example, thinking to look something up on the ipad if she got stuck.
her attention is always on the wrong thing. if she broke a pencil shed sit and re sharpen fifty times rather than find a pen. I really need her to start thinking a bit more logically and remembering what she's been told ready fir catching the bus etc.
any of you successfully managed to turn this around? and if so, how?
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Gileswithachainsaw · 21/04/2016 16:26
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