My daughter is 11 and is very slim, some would say skinny but up until recently she has had a good appetite. I've never obsessed over how much she eats on a given day but looked at her diet over the course of a week as and she's pretty good - mix of dairy, protein, carbs and she loves fruit/veg.
About a year ago I had a call from school saying that they had noticed a pattern where she wasn't eating her school dinner, just scraping it straight into the bin. She has never been a big breakfast eater but I'd felt she was having a hot meal at lunchtime so not to worry. When it turned out she wasn't eating at lunch either, I panicked. School recommended that DD move to packed lunches which we did after discussing with her. She said she was throwing the dinners away as she didn't like them so packed lunch seemed a good option.
Packed lunches have been very hit and miss. She doesn't normally eat much - maybe a few chunks of cucumber plus 1/4 sandwich, couple of sips of water. DD says she's not hungry, feels sick, doesn't have time to eat at lunchtime. Her reasons vary but same result - hardly anything eaten. She does tend to eat a reasonable evening meal though.
I'm worried though as her lunch and breakfast consumption is tiny. I don't know how she keeps going at school.
In the school holidays she enjoys cooking and baking, but in term time we just don't have the time to spend cooking together.
Just for background I was diagnosed with type 1 diabetes last year. DD knows I have to be careful with what I eat and manage my blood sugar/insulin. I eat a varied diet though and nothing is off limits as I can adjust my doses according to my food intake. I don't know if she's picking up on my changed relationship with food.
I'm not sure what I need to do next. Should I take her to GP? Should I just make sure she has a good evening meal and not worry about the rest? Any advice would be great.
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dancinginpurplerain · 19/04/2016 20:53
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