I haven't been on this site for a very long time but I suspect this is a common theme...or at least I hope it is.
MY DS is about to turn 13 and, although he has 3 good friends at home, he is struggling with friendships at school. It has always been this way really...he is dyslexic, shy and just not one of the 'cool' kids. He's very sensitive and wants to be liked by everyone and I wonder if he's trying too hard?
He says no one is nasty to him but they just don't seem to know he's there, he has no one to go to lunch with and when he tries to interact with a group, they just move away. Further, two boys have had recently had parties and he is the only one in the class that wasn't invited...he only found out about them via social media. When I asked him if it bothered him, he just said 'Not really, but I thought we were friends and I was obviously wrong' - it breaks my heart as he's so unhappy.
Obviously you can't make people like you but I really don't know how to handle it anymore. He is an only child, which I don't think helps and he says everyone just thinks he's weird.
Should I contact school...I have no idea what to do. My DH says don't worry, it will sort itself out but he's in Year 8 now...how much longer do I leave it?
Any advice from experienced parents is greatly appreciated.
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Hooplah · 10/02/2016 18:48
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