Oh help, wise MNers.
DS is 10. Ergo I am being driven to snotty sobbing by his behaviour (and he's not that bad!). I have lost any ability to parent him I may have had. I don't know how to respond to almost every situation with him. I have read too much other advice and feel stuck in a maelstrom of possible responses.
DS is:
Bright, dis-organised, defiant, kind, helpful, lazy, screen-loving, good reader, a homework-refusenik, sensitive, insightful, bedtime-resistant, grumpy and tearful in the mornings, stroppy, clingy, funny, prone to calling himself an idiot/useless if I challenge him on something, reasonably popular at school, lovely and hideous.
I can't seem to get him to do anything without it resulting in some kind of shouting, slamming, sobbing match...and the thing still doesn't get done. And I mean simple things like get dressed, go to bed, stop scooting indoors, have a shower. Let alone homework, helping around the house etc. The only things he'll do are on his terms, and his terms are not close enough to mine IYKWIM.
What should I do? I feel like I need to re-programmed with "Parenting 101 v2 tweenager". Repeating "this too shall pass" is no longer working...
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tigana · 03/11/2015 12:26
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