DD's behaviour is really starting to affect our family and I don't know how to sort it.
It's constantly like treading on eggshells around her. If we say something she doesn't want to hear then she'll scream and shout at us.
When we send her to her room she will refuse to go and the only way to get her there is to physically drag her up the stairs which isn't the right way to go about it.
We've started taking her phone and iPod off her but then she tries to grab them back all the while shouting that we can't take them as they are hers.
She doesn't do as she is told and will argue with us until the cows come home. She'll just keep pushing and pushing. She can be quite aggressive with the shouting as well.
She winds the others up as well. She'll walk into the room where we are all sat and will start on them and then when we tell her off she will shout and scream that she didn't do anything.
When she's being good there can still sometimes be an undercurrent as her behaviour can switch just like that.
Her behaviour has been brilliant the past 2 nights and she was lovely to be around and then tonight she just changes. I just wish she was like that more often as I hate telling her off so often and even she says she prefers it when she's not being told off. She can have such enthusiasm for life and can be funny and smiley at times but I wish she was more often.
I love her dearly but she's wearing us down.
There aren't any problems at school and she has a group of friends who are really nice.
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Struggling to cope with 11 year old DD's behaviour
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Loveherbutnotherbehaviour · 29/01/2014 20:11
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