Have reached breaking point with dd1 now. She is 9.5 yrs old and is frankly disgusting and i dont know what to do next.
She throws a wobbly when she has to - have a shower, brush her teeth, brush her hair, change her pants (!) And if i dont constantly push, chase and check she honestly wouldnt do any of the above.
The biggest problems though can be any of the following, not wiping her bum, not flushing and not washing her hands.
And not just every now and then, its regularly!
I am forever explaining, telling off, threatening punishment and last wk i even gave her a demonstration of how shes potentially spreading germs "you dont wash and touch the banister rail. I had clean hands, now i dont" (run my hands down rail to demonstrate contact).
She has also been known to lick her sisters things and spit on her wardrobe mirror
Yesterday hit an all time low. Dd3 age 5 came to me with a huge blob of snot across her hands and explained she had got it there after touching the top of a bookcase on the landing. I call the dcs and dd1 owns up to wiping it on there.
Last night dd2 tells me dd1 had wet on the bathroom floor... and left wee puddles on the floor. She had also wiped her legs with a p.j top and thrown it onto her drawers to stay. Dd1 admits it and dares to snigger! She laughed!
Even after another long shouty lecture, she wasnt remorseful
Sorry for the essay but please help me! We arent dirty people. We are clean, the house is clean, the other dcs have grasped the hygiene basics. Why cant she? What should i do now?
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how to get through to dd 9.5. - hygiene and generally being disgusting
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mamachelle · 02/12/2013 14:29
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