Just really looking for a bit if advice on the best way to deal with it, she is my first at high school and i don't want to make it any worse.
My first reaction is to wait at the school gates and strangle the little sods but i realise that is totally irrational!
In one of her classes (only once a week this class is on) she is in a group with another girl and two boys. One of the boys and the girls have been giving her nasty comments and calling her names/putting her down since school started a few weeks ago. She has told me about it but said she wanted to try and deal with it herself and i obviously praised her and told her to keep me posted. She has told me tonight the other boy in the group has been turned againsed her and she is miserable at the thought of going to this class again
I've tried calling the school but everyone has left so will call in the morning, I was just going to leave a message for her guidance teacher to call me and ask what they are going to do about it. I am really not wanting to make things worse though by having the bullies know her mum has called the school. I'm not sure if I should go into the school in the morning but if the teachers in class I would need to wait for him to call me anyway.
Am so upset about this, she is such a quiet thing and so bloody sweet that I hate the thought of people being nasty to her and making her dread this class. They are also in other classes with her but this is the only one that she is in a small group with them.
Anyone got any words of advice? First time dealing with this so am torn thinking how to handle it best so I don't make things worse. It's quite a "rough" school unfortunately
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