DD will be getting the bus to school for the first time from September, and the 'norm' seems to be to get them a mobile in case of transport issues / emergencies. The school is very good at taking all the phones when they arrive, and returning them before they get on the bus, so that they're not a distraction at school.
But what sort of contract to get? What rules to set? I don't want to ban her from using her phone, but don't want her to run up a bill texting friends. What kind of rules do you put in place?
In addition I'm separated from her Dad. He is a controlling, and impossible to talk to character. I'd imagine he'd see it as his right to phone that phone whenever he sees fit. Again - what kind of boundaries do you put in place? And how do you talk to a 9 year old about it? I don't want her to think I'm stopping her from talking to her Dad, but she's just to young to have the responsibility of checking her phone all the time.
What do you do?
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Noregrets78 · 01/08/2013 00:10
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