Brief story.
We've just recently moved back to the North East (home for me) after living in Derbyshire for 5 years.
My DS1 was about 6 when we moved down there so 10 when we moved back. Now obviously she had some quite strong friendships which she left behind when we moved back. It was my choice to come back as I was very unhappy and hadnt settled at all. Anyway since we moved back shes very unhappy says she hates it here wants to move back to Derbyshire, she has no friends at her new school (have spoken to teachers and they say she is fine and she has made good friends with a girl on the estate who is lovely) its all my fault etc etc etc. How can I explain to her that things will get better and that it takes time to build friendships. All she ever says to me is its all your fault we were all happy it was just you who wanted to come back!
Everything I say to her at the moment shes grunting at full of attitude. She also wants to play on a particular WII game all of the time and kicks off when I tell her to switch it off.
Dont get me wrong I'm not a pushover of a mother and I do demand her to switch game off after a certain length of time. She just seems so unhappy all of the time.
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laurasarah · 20/07/2011 13:48
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