This school year has been hard on all of us, I've been present but busy with DS preschool chairmanship and a new job. DD has had three teachers this year and a new head teacher, and somewhere along the line her 'best' friend decided she didn't want to play so much with her. She was lost.
Teacher 2 fed back that she was emotionally immature, but gave no direction to help. Friends nearby have said she moans too much, but have caught on that if they are losing the game they are playing, telling DD that's she's moaning will pretty much send her indoors, and hooray - they've won...
Party invites have dried up, invitations to play have died on their arses. We go to work, school, childminder, home, swimming, brownies, preschool fundraisers and family.
Am I too busy, and therefore being thought of as aloof? (probably)
Has she developed a negative reputation amongst classmates for being 'emotionally immature' and too moany?
Being less busy is one thing I'll be doing next academic year, but what do I do about the 'emotionally immature' bit. I can see the first signs of puberty, but I can't use that as an excuse. What is emotional immaturity for a 7 yo anyway?
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DD is 7 school thinks 'emotionally immature' and friends think 'too moany' what do I do?
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CoopedUp · 05/07/2011 14:11
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