My pfb is 11yo.
For the past year or so she has been going through puberty.
She hasn't actually started her periods yet but all the other signs are there and I know it's a matter of months, if not weeks, away.
We are very open about it all and discuss periods etc regularly, mainly because dd is dreading getting them and I want to prepare her the best I can.
It's killing me to see my baby growing up though
I know that it's irrational, and I know that this is a perfectly normal and indeed, necessary process that she has to go through, it's just that I can't help but feel that I didn't sign up for this!
With every sign of the advances of puberty, I am stupidly feeling more and more upset. I'm am remarkably nonchalant and matter of fact to dd about it all, but what I really want to do is cry "I want my baby back!!!"
Please tell me I'm not alone
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AcceptAndMoveOn · 19/06/2011 22:46
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